Is your partner is a narcissist?
October 1, 2020
Narcissus is our personality times this someone with a ubiquitous pattern of size (sometimes only in fantasy). Someone who need admiration from others and is characterized by a lack of empathy (compassion).
If you feel unnoticed in a relationship, lonely and you live in a constant feeling of guilt, and additionally yours partner no sees yours needs and must always be at the center of attention. check with with the test below, maybe your partner to manifest features of destructive narcissism.
Based on your experience with your partner, make a point of view each of the following statements using the following scoring:
5 - he always or almost always does this
4 - he does that often
3 - sometimes it does
2 - it rarely does
1 - never or almost never yes is progressing.
1. Constantly expects you to satisfy them all his needs.
2. Expects myself, that without questions you will guess his expectations, desires and needs.
3. He gets upset when he thinks you are criticizing or blaming him.
4. He expects you to always bet him needs for
first place.
5. He tries to get attention in ambiguous way.
6. Expects that you will be show him yours openly admiration.
7. Behaves childish (e.g. sulking and capricious).
8. Without a clear one causes unexpectedly accuses you of insensitivity and indifference.
9. I look for flaws in your friends.
10. He gets angry when he encounters objection or resistance.
11. Can not read your feelings.
12. Uses your confidences to criticize, blame you and detract from your successes.
13. He controls his surroundings.
14. He lies, he distorts the facts , he misleads others.
15. He likes to compete and applies all possible holds to won, what he wants.
16. Exalts himself.
17. It turns out contempt for you and others.
18. He is arrogant.
19. He is jealous of others.
20. It diminishes your value and degrades you.
21. He is self-centered and eternally absorbed in himself.
22. He must always be the center of attention.
23. Manipulates others to get their admiration
24. He is impulsive and reckless.
25. He boasts.
26. He is indifferent to your needs.
27. He makes fun of the mistakes and mistakes of others.
28. Likes to flirt.
29. He is vindictive and likes to get even.
thirty. Specials are expected reasons, but he himself does not show them to anyone.
In fact
Attention narcissus!
Do you know who a narcissist is and what is the relationship with a narcissist? Narcissus is a personality today. Be careful, this type is charming ...
Are you a narcissist?
Has anyone ever called you a narcissist? Reply to a few questions and find out what the truth is.
Mom's self-esteem
What is the easiest way to predict whether a little girl will have a negative body image in the future? Listen to her mom!
Emotions locked in the body.
It's a hard day at work and you feel the tension around you neck and arms. Hard Talk or public speaking and you feel like your stomach is clenching ...
You may be interested in:
RESULTS
The minimum number of points is 30 and the maximum is 150 points. Add points and check with the score below if you are related to a person suffering from a destructive form of narcissism.
126-150 A very serious problem It is very likely that your partner is suffering from destructive narcissism.
102 - 125 A serious problem Your partner has many of the traits of a destructive narcissist.
78 - 101 Moderate problem your partner exhibits some disturbing features destructive narcissist.
54 - 77 Slight problem Your partner exhibits hidden narcissism, but few characteristics about destructive nature.
30 - 53 No problem There is little likely to be yours partner manifested destructive narcissism.
Very serious problem (126-150 points)
This the result means that you consider yours the partner behaves in a manner typical of a destructive narcissistic personality. His behavior and attitude have a strong negative impact on your relationship and your self-esteem and confidence.
Serious problem (102-125 points)
This result means what you think Your partner displays many of the behaviors that are typical of destructive narcissism. You are concerned about his attitude and behaviors, especially those that reduce your value, or that degrade you or humiliate. Attempts to confront and oppose your partner do not bring the expected results, and you feel even worse after them.
Moderate problem (78-101 points)
This result means what you think Your partner displays certain behaviors and attitudes typical of a destructive narcissistic personality. These attitudes and behaviors bother you a bit, but you may find it difficult to identify exactly which reactions, words and messages are the source of your anxiety.
Slight problem (54-77 points)
This result means what you think Your partner exhibits some disturbing attitudes and behaviors typical of destructive narcissism, but these are few and their severity is relatively low. Hidden narcissism cannot be ruled out, but most likely your problems stem from a completely different background. Your partner's underdeveloped narcissistic traits can only be exacerbate the difficulties that have already arisen in your relationship.
No problem (30-53 points)
This result means that your partner does not exhibit destructive narcissism. There may be other reasons for your troubles.
If the above test showed that your the partner has the features of a destructive narcissist, learns how to deal with the narcissist , seek support from a psychotherapist or friends. You are not even alone if your partner has tried to isolate you from family and friends.
Source: I love narcissus,