If there is a narcissist around you, they will happen to you  myself  moments when you feel that your life and energy are drained from you. You are  exhausted from contact with him or her.

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    When I think about how  narcissus  treats others,  I can think of cooking a frog.  If you throw the frog into boiling water - it will pop out feeling the water and run away.  If, on the other hand, you put it in cold water  and  slowly  you start to turn up the temperature, the frog will start to adjust its body temperature to the environment - getting warmer water.   When the water will be very

hot  frog  not  will be  had  already  strength  run away,  because  whole  energy  used  on  adjustment 

body temperature - and it will cook.

   It is similar in relation to  a narcissist. At first, the narcissist will charm you.  Could be a successful boss to work with  is a professional dream come true. A promising employee,  who is supposed to do great things for the employer.

    As a handsome and stunning man or  a beautiful and dazzling woman seems to be the fulfillment of a fairy tale about perfect love and  perfect  partner.  

    Be careful! After a few weeks, up to months, the narcissus will begin to show its true nature, and YOU will begin to show it all  you will start your energy  use  to suppression  frustration with this "ideal" and you will ultimately be exhausted. 

No matter what  your narcissistic brother, partner or parent, nature may have good qualities  narcissistic  deep interaction  violates  Your limits.  Narcissus  will be  manipulated  Toba, he was pushing the boundaries ...  until you are exhausted. When you are in close contact with  As a narcissist, you feel that on an emotional level so much has been taken away from you that you don't have  nothing more to offer.  

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Why in contact with a narcissist  you lose so fast  energy and you feel  exhaustion?

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1. Crossing the border .

    You can be a person who can bet and  defend your limits, however, whenever you are in a relationship  with a narcissist, it will be very difficult for you to defend your borders - even if you have one  a clear idea of what is right and what is wrong. This is because narcissists  they have no respect for borders . They attack. They ignore your right to privacy, actions and opinions different from their own. They don't listen and they don't  respect for you and your boundaries, and that is  exhausting.

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2. Living in fear.

    Narcissus  they often get their own way:  way  action, idea, goal ...   being openly aggressive or passively aggressive towards other people. Those around them are afraid to say or do something that will make the narcissist aggressive. Living in a state of fear is mentally and physically harmful on almost every level.

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3. Secrets and manipulations.

    Narcissistic families are functioning  thanks to lies, secrets, and violent manipulation and behavior. If you are not the type of person who can function in a constant drama, then hooking a narcissist into a web leaves you trapped. Sometimes it is enough to sit down and wait for the spider to perform its attack. And he will certainly do, because the narcissist sees you as an ideal (at the beginning of the relationship) and a worthless person (when

first enchantment

will pass and when he finds out

that how  everyone you are not

ideal). So when they fall

his pink glasses - a

will fall and faster than that 

you think - it will be you

burdened with his betrayals,

because you don't care for him like that

as he would like, because you don't tell him good  words - even  if  you try it and it will turn you off  if he happens to have a bad day (am  many of them) or his attention  directed  is already on another property.  

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4. You never are  able to offer enough.

    Narcissus  never, ever, feels enough. He always wants to  more. More attention. More delights. More control over you and your life ...  Creates  more chaos between the people around you. I want  more and more from you.

    Make friends with a narcissist, and he will  he wanted you to be their best friend. Tell him a private secret sometime and he will feel  get upset if you don't share every intimate aspect of your life from now on.  Get into a love relationship with a narcissist it will be  demanded  that you  cut off  off from  whole  dawn and focused  only on it,  often  requiring breaking contacts with  friends and family  

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You can never meet the needs of a narcissist - but you can collapse from exhaustion in the course of trying .

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Narcissus is an unhappy person, so and  You will not be happy in your relationship with him.  

If you need help in a relationship with a narcissist, the vast majority of experts in the narcissist's personality will tell you - RUN !!!  you can too  read some tips on how to deal with a narcissist,  however, do not count on a miracle. Narcissists do not see the need to change, and any suggestion that he is doing or saying something wrong will cause him anger and aggression.   You can too  look  support of a psychologist or friend -  if the narcissist allowed you to have another one.

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